Family Caregiver Blog

At Legacy Home Care, we understand the pressures you are under as a family caregiver. This blog is designed to support you in the incredibly important work that you do.

As the Nassau and Suffolk Counties experts in family caregiving, we have resources, tips and information that can make your life much easier.

If you would like help, give us a call at: 631-880-6321.


“Promise you won’t …”

"Promise you won't …"

A loved one expressing their fear of living in a nursing home may pull on your heartstrings and draw upon your natural desire to promise them “never.” But who can predict the future? It’s wise to respond realistically while still honoring their concerns.

How Parkinson’s affects communication

How Parkinson's affects communication

Parkinson’s disease can make communication difficult. A rigid face and monotone voice project nonverbal cues that may not line up with what the person with Parkinson’s is actually feeling. There are ways to offset these challenges and clarify emotional content and meaning.

Completing an advance directive

What would happen if your loved one couldn’t speak for themselves? How would decisions for their care be made? An advance directive puts that guidance in place before a crisis. It’s simple to complete, doesn’t require an attorney, and ensures that treatment preferences are followed.

What is “sundowning”?

If a loved one with cognitive decline becomes more anxious or restless in the evening, it may be sundowning, a common pattern in dementia. Solutions include consistent routines, better lighting, and setting a calm tone for the latter half of the day.

Father’s Day without Dad

After the death of a parent, holidays such as Father’s Day can feel very emotional and often stir up grief. Still, there are many ways to celebrate and honor the best of your dad, even if he is no longer with you.

Repetitive questions

Repetitive questions

Are you frustrated answering the same question over and over? You aren’t alone. Repetitive questions are a common and exasperating behavior in the early stage of dementia, but there are ways to help.

Watching for financial abuse

Watching for financial abuse

Financial abuse of older adults is more common—and closer to home—than many families realize. It doesn’t come only from scams; it often involves someone your loved one knows and trusts. Knowing the warning signs and staying involved can help you protect them.

Solutions to hearing loss

Solutions to hearing loss

Hearing loss is a common problem that comes with age. And it is often a frustrating experience for both the older adult and those around them. Luckily there are many ways to improve communication and understanding.

Preparing for in-home care

Preparing for in-home care

Bringing in outside help for an aging loved one can take a lot of weight off your shoulders as a family caregiver. Before the help begins, there are several things to consider and communicate clearly about, including safety, routines, and backup plans.

What is an occupational therapist?

What is an occupational therapist?

If the person you care for is struggling with seemingly simple tasks such as eating, dressing, or getting up or down from a chair, an occupational therapist may be able to help. They can recommend changes to help your loved one remain independent and do the things they enjoy.